Trust Begets Trust
"The only way to make a man trustworthy is by trusting
him. And the easiest way to make him untrustworthy is to
mistrust him and show your mistrust."
In all good relationships,
particularly between partners, friends and family the most
important ingredient is mutual trust. It is only on the
wings of trust that relationships attain magnificent heights.
Total trust calls for a high sense of personal integrity.
A complete and
honest trust coupled with love can do wonders. The love
you express to the other person makes him trust you and
makes him feel that, you are his well-wisher. He will try
to live up to your expectations. But when you combine this
love with trust, then the other person will strive more
whole-heartedly to live up to your trust. This makes him
feel good about himself and the relationship.
"Forgiveness is one of the finest qualities a person can inculcate."
Any negative feelings
of hostility or resentment stored in a person's subconscious
mind for long periods finds expression as harshness in speech,
thus becoming a hindrance to developing a cordial relationship.
hostility and other such ill feelings give birth to subconscious
guilt feelings and punish the person harbouring such emotions.
Let go such negative emotions and you will be happy.
Chapter - Forgiveness
"Love is the purest feeling one can experience for another
pure love, there
is ecstasy, deep involvement and a genuine concern for the
other person. Do you love someone this way ? If you do,
then, you genuinely deserve such a love.
"In a human being, joy and happiness are hidden
like cream in milk. You must churn to bring it out."
Happiness is scarce.
That is why everyone is running after it all the time. Every
action of a person is motivated by an irresistible instinct
to be happy. Happiness is the goal of all struggles.
In fact, most
people don't just wish to be happy, they want to be happier
than others and that is difficult, because they strongly
believe that others are happier than they actually are.
Training and cultivating
the mind and filling it with love, kindness, tolerance and
mercy can be greatly beneficial. Ultimately happiness is
not a destination but a journey and the manner of travelling.
Peace is the foundation for happiness. A person
who is at peace with himself can be a happy person. Peace
is a state of existence where the outside stimuli do not
disturb the mind's purity and composure.
A peaceful mind
is a sure instrument for resounding material success.
Chapter - Happiness - Peace - Harmony
"Many arts together make up the art of living. The art of
giving is one of them."
In giving a man
receives more than he gives and in multiplication of the
worth of the thing / thought / deed given. Getters do not
really get so much happiness as the givers do.
The techniques and skills of better behaviour work in the
long run only when they are backed by fundamental character.
Basic goodness gives life to techniques."
A positive mental
attitude is not something that can be developed overnight.
Persistent and conscious practice over long periods is necessary
to generate results.
"Marriage is a beautiful, though delicate relationship between
a man and a woman."
Only Basic Goodness
Gives Life to Techniques.
Character all HR will appear
Manipulative & marked with
INSINCERITY & DUPLICITY
& does not generate
TRUST & CONFIDENCE
Chapter - Forging Ahead